“now I have joined the club” those were her first words to me after a hearty laugh in answering the phone. She did not say Hello or anything else. She just laughed on answering. For someone who had just endured a grueling “pushing” session in the labor ward, it was strange.
I have a sister but I have sisters. Unfortunately some have fallen into the category of the ‘ex- sisters’. Nana A and Z with my M and M are still counted among my sisters. I will jump at their whim any time. I digress though.
Our society measures a successful marriage in terms of the children that it produces. Who will carry the family name into the next generation? No wonder it takes a village to raise a child because that child is seen as growing up to defend the village; to be a role model to others and carry on its traditions and cultures. I welcome my niece.
JGA-B please take your seat. Enjoy a sip of milk. It is not nice in the future but now it will sustain. Hurry up and hand over the milk containers back to Daddy. He is used to sucking from them. Enjoy your stay. Welcome your brothers and sisters.. You have brought us much joy. May it remain same till we depart. Remember, you are of Ghanaian parentage more so Peki-Avetille and Peki-Blengo. May traditions be with you but modify them small. May you not indulge in Burghers and fries and what not ( your grandma loved McDonalds).
Be respectful to your parents and elders. Eschew pride. Above all, as you grow , Trust in God. Nobody will teach you about God for you are from Him. Trust only in Him.
Once again Janell,woezor lo!! Congratulations to Ben and Meg. Aunty May too. Love you all.